LAWYER JANE HOFFMAN……. I have a question for you
Who is the villian in our courtroom drama?
Is it it the Judges, who preside over the divorce case, and who always seem to rule in your favour?
Is it the Psychiatrists you hire, who, once on the stand, appear to contradict their own written reports?
Is it my ex wife, who has paid you over $250,000 to keep me from my 8 year old son?
Is it me? The car salesman, who won’t shut up. Is my campaign to expose the injustice in the custody laws hurting my cause in the courts?
Is it you? Jane Hoffman the Lawyer, who repeatedly misleads the judge, to keep me from my son. You know what I mean.
In my opinion Jane, I think we are all to blame. I think we are all guilty of sleep walking through the judicial process.
Let my family see my son at Christmas, Jane. Why should I spend seven days in a hotel in Alberta, when my son and I can spend it with my family? My ex wife says I can bring him to Vancouver if the court agrees.
I am coming back to Calgary this week to ask a judge for Vancouver access. I sure hope I don’t end up back in Jail for 30 days. Show me some Christmas spirit Calgary.
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December 12th, 2009 at 11:47 am
best of luck sir. keep yourself together during this difficult time. for your son’s sake, try to maintain healthy body/healthy mind. i wonder if a completely different approach might work best with your ex but i’m not sure. remember, all of this is going to impact what kind of a young man matthew becomes. in the end, both you and your ex want the best for him. in a few years, matthew might be able to take more control and actually ‘tell’ the courts or his mother that he wants to see you. in the meantime however, i would not add any additional stress upon such a young child. i wonder if being ‘amicable’ for a few years might actually help the situation, as long as you are able to see him, whether it be in alberta or b.c. although i understand your frustration. i am also wondering whether a more zen-like approach to this whole situation might ultimately work in your favor versus the ‘fighting’ approach. although you can’t be become complacent either and need to be a presence in your son’s life. this is a heart-wrenching story and my prayers are with your sweet boy matthew. may he find the strength to get through this ordeal and find peace within. god bless you all.