This is a letter I recieved from another father:
I’m the dude you showed the newspaper of your son to. I was there today to buy the blue Ford but didn’t get to test drive it because of the alternator. I just wanted to take this moment to tell you I have a lot of respect for your fight Chris. I wasn’t able to engage you in conversation about the subject as it brought up some heavy duty issues for me as I watched my father drink himself to death over the same issues. My heart really goes out to you Chris. Being a father of 4 children myself I know how important our children are to us. I couldn’t imagine being separated from my kids so much that I stay with their mother only to be a father to them. (something no one else knows but me and you now man lol ) They are my world! I have a lot of respect for you because you do more then I have seen any father do for their son, you fight for him with everything you have. I’m not talking money, you know what I mean.
The system is a clear mockery of justice being used by some really sick ego-maniacs, power mongers and psychos and it boils down to vanity and greed and should be called the injustice system. Fathers are the scape goat for society and it is clear the system is designed to pull families apart and profit from misfortune. It couldn’t be more effective if they planned it this way. Something to ponder as it seems the fix is in and the target is any male fathering a child. The goal seems clear also, since your living the nightmare you would know first hand better then anyone they are out to screw you over.
God Bless you for having the stamina to fight! If we all fought this kind of shit in all our instituitions we allow to lord over us we would have a say. Which it is made obvious by that Judge’s smirk they don’t care and are the problem keeping us from true justice and sanity in family matters such as the right to access your child.
Anyway that’s my two cents, just wanted to let you know more people understand then you may think my friend. Peace!! Hope this message finds you well.
Thanks for the kind words and encouragement.
Your story sounds like you are on the edge of a cliff, one wrong move and you lose the children. I am guessing your story is more common than you think.
Many fathers dare not test the divorce system because of the heavy bias favouring women.
Yea, you are right, it is “THE INJUSTICE SYSTEM”